Your father will let a stranger sit in the living room before he lets anyone climb down to the basement. The sump pump sits in a pit he never looks at. When it works, you never hear it. When it fails, the first sign is wet carpet a few days later. That silence is the trap. Nobody owns a machine that is supposed to be quiet.
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You do not need his permission to find out whether it works. You need an owner, a test, and a phone number. Start tonight with a flashlight and leave the repair decisions for later.
Look at the pit before you touch anything
Stand at the top of the stairs and check what you can see without reaching into standing water. Is the pit covered, and is the cover seated? Is there debris, a sock, or a bucket lid lodged near the pump? Is the cord run along the floor where someone can trip on it or where water can reach it? If the pump is plugged into a power strip or an extension cord, write that down. That is a question for a licensed electrician, not a fix to make yourself.
Follow the discharge pipe, the line that carries water out of the house, to where it ends. It should point away from the foundation and drain somewhere the water will not run back toward the wall. If it ends in a flowerbed against the house or empties into a window well, note it. A pump that works perfectly can still flood the basement if its water comes right back in.
Test the float and the outlet
The float tells the pump when to run. Look at it from the top of the pit, and if you can reach it without leaning over water, lift it gently. It should rise and fall freely without catching on the pit wall or the cord. If it sticks, the pump may run constantly or never start, and either way it is not doing its job.
Test the pump with water, not with your hands. Pour a bucket of water into the pit slowly and watch the float rise. The pump should start, lower the water, and shut off. If it does not start, check whether the outlet has power. Do not reach into the pit while the pump is running or the floor is wet. Call an electrician if the outlet trips, feels warm, or the cord is damaged. Do not repair wiring yourself.
Find out whether there is a backup
Many pits have a battery backup unit that runs the pump when the power fails. Find out whether one exists. If it does, read the label and the manual, write down the battery's install date and the replacement schedule the manufacturer lists, and compare that to what is actually installed. Do not assume a battery is fresh because the unit is plugged in. Check whether the unit has an alarm for a low battery or a failed pump, and whether you can hear that alarm from your bedroom.
If there is no backup, say so plainly to yourself. The storm that knocks out power is often the storm that floods a basement, and an unprotected pit has no answer to it.
Name the owner, the call, and the test
This is the part that keeps the pump working after you leave the house. Write three things on an index card and tape it to the basement wall or the top of the stairs.
First, the person who checks the pit on a schedule you set, with the day of the week it happens. Second, the licensed plumber or service company to call if the pump does not start, and the number to call when the power is out. Third, the test that person runs: pour water into the pit once a season, confirm the float moves, confirm the discharge line flows, and listen for the pump to start and stop.
Ask the service company specific questions before you need them. Do they service sump pumps, and do they answer after hours? Will they read the backup battery's replacement date from the label, or will you have to figure it out yourself? Will they give you a written note of what they checked? Those answers decide whether the card helps at two in the morning. If you are still looking for a service company, Local Help in St. Louis lists where to start.
Next move tonight
Go to the top of the basement stairs with a flashlight. Look at the cover, the cord, and the discharge line. Look at the float from the top of the pit. Then write the card, even if it is only the owner's name and a phone number you already have. If your father will not let the card stay in the basement, keep it with the other house papers where you will both find it.