A key lockbox on Dad's house exists for one reason: when the phone goes unanswered and the door is locked, someone outside the house needs to get in without breaking a window. Dad may resist the box as a sign that he is being watched. Treat the install as a short project with four passes, and do not skip the last one.
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Pass one: decide what the box is for
Write down the single job before you buy anything. A box for a responder, a box for a neighbor who checks the mail, and a box for you are three different plans with different codes and different reachable hours. Name the one or two people who will hold the code. The rest of the install follows from that list.
Pass two: survey the mount
Pick a spot out of the direct weather, at a height you can read and reach, and not so visible from the street that it signals which house has something worth taking. Check the wall or post you will attach to. Masonry needs an anchor rated for it, and hollow siding will not hold a box that gets pulled on. If the only solid option is a post in the yard, mount to the post and not to the trim.
Pass three: set the code and the log
Set a combination the authorized people can remember and that is not a birthday or anything tied to Dad. Write the code on a card that lives with the people who hold it, not on the box and not inside the house. Keep a one-page log that lists who got the code, when each person got it, and when it was last changed. The log is the document you will need when the code changes, not the box itself.
Pass four: test the open before anyone needs it
Lock the box, scramble the dial, and open it using only the card. Do this with the person who will use it in a real emergency, standing where they would stand. If the dial sticks, the shackle binds, or the card is unclear, fix it now. Ask your local fire department whether it expects a particular lockbox type or has its own rules for boxes at homes, and write the answer into the log. The Local Help in St. Louis page can point you to the right office to ask.
Close the job
Put the next move on the calendar: the person who keeps the log checks the box at the first change of season, confirms the code still opens it, and confirms the holders are still the right people. If you cannot name that person tonight, the install is not finished.